Hello Dear Reader,
The time has come to say good-bye to sexlovejoy.com, so that I can create a new awesomely delicious site that you’ll love.
Sex Love Joy, the saying that I had tattooed on me in September of 1996 (what seems like a lifetime ago) was where *this* journey of healing began. Sex Love Joy were things that I knew I needed in my life to thrive, to be a better woman, to fully be myself. In 2009 when I started to write publicly about sex, love, joy and anything else that I had the courage or audacity to share, I badly wanted to have it all – Sex Love Joy. It took me a little over three years and over 200 posts, to get from a life that was filled with blah to a life filled with mindful sex, intimate love and vivacious joy.
And when I finally found myself living a sexy active life I loved, my blog seemed to be the only thing that no longer fit. I couldn’t let go of Sex Love Joy then, even though I announced that personally and professionally I was moving forward with other things.
So for a few months I continued to blog regularly all the while thinking…
I want to separate my online dairy (blog/Sex Love Joy) from my work.
When Capricorn season came I decided to take a lot of time to myself and to concentrate on my work. My passion, my talents and my writing merged effortlessly before me into projects that poured out of me faster than I could type, take notes or sometimes even think, yet they didn’t seem to fit on sexlovejoy.com. In a tweet I announced the end of Sex Love Joy, yet I still couldn’t pull the trigger but now that I know what comes next I can.
Why I am saying good-bye to blogging on sexlovejoy.com:
- I cannot brand what started as a tattoo and a wish days after losing my daughter.
- I cannot brand the saying that is where my peace and power come from.
- If I cannot brand Sex Love Joy then it cannot be the business name and URL from which I share my professional writing.
What comes next for me is…a new website, a new business and a defined mission for my writing and work.
Over the next few weeks my online worlds will look a mess, sit without any new posts, and then BIG BANG – an improved Lidia-Anain.com will launch. The posts from Sex Love Joy will remain online, in fact you can access the old blog here or dig through the archives here.
Please excuse my absence while I take some time to create the work that will help YOU turn your blahs into vivacious joy and to empower you to create a sexy active life you absolutely love!
Wishing you Sex Love Joy one last time,

A tasting of my latest work…
May
14
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Jan
16
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09
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04
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10
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05
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30
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