Lidia-Anain

Aug

12

The Big Dick Theory by Native Notes

Too many dudes front like they’re Mr. Big Dick and they are doing themselves a disservice. They run around telling every woman who will listen that they have ten inches in them jeans, that they’re going to put the pussy in a coma and “hands down” be the best dick she ever had. Man listen. Women don’t want to hear that bullish. Don’t get me wrong, they want quality loving but the fake big dick swagger turns them off. Not to mention, just because someone has 10in doesn’t mean they’re slaying the box ‘proper’. The best way to guarantee maximum sexual benefit (if she brings up your size) for a woman is to gas her up that you ain’t really packing, AT ALL.

Mar

10

The Mind of a Man – The Princess and the Whore by WisdomIsMisery

naked candor / sex love joy archives

I wrote a post on my site called the Good Girl vs. Bad Girl conundrum about the difficulty some men face, self-included, when differentiating between good girls and bad girls. We claim we want a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets but when one woman embodies both of these qualities? Deuces. Fellas, what up wit that?

To make matters worse, men tend to pursue the lady and the freak separately, often looking for two women to play these respective roles instead of one. This flawed logic results in men who cheat or are unsatisfied with their so-called relationships, neither of which being an ideal outcome.

Feb

17

Yes Being a Good Guy Means You Have to Wait for Sex by Max

naked candor / sex love joy archives

A woman I know has a foolproof plan for getting rid of unwanted suitors: she f*cks them. When she goes on a first date, the instant at which she realizes she never wants to see this guy again is immediately followed by the instant in which she decides she’s dropping panties immediately. She has a bit of a reputation now, but what she doesn’t have is pests blowing up her phone or stalking her.

The reason my friend’s plan works so well is that almost every man will get bored with the woman who readily gives up sex. It’s not always instantaneous, but sooner than later his eye will be caught by someone else, and when that someone else makes him work for the pums, he’ll forget all about the p*ssy he got and focus on the p*ssy he’s not getting. Ain’t no p*ssy like new p*ssy, isn’t that how the saying goes?

Feb

14

The Kissing Game by WisdomIsMisery

naked candor / sex love joy archives

People Don’t Kiss No More All They Do Is Fuck

This might or might not be news to you but there are women out there who place their pussy below their mouths and not just anatomically speaking. Now, I will readily admit that I have had sex with women who didn’t want to kiss because kissing was considered “too personal.” I discussed this with a few other women and they thought this made perfect sense.

This does not make sense, but because I’m a man and I like sex, I pretty much roll with whatever rules and regulations the woman has and then I opine, mule and meander over it post-orgasm. Then in some cases, like this case for example, I write about it.

Feb

10

you don’t have to wait until valentine’s to be great at love!

love & relationships / sex love joy archives

It is almost Valentine’s Day! I’m so not excited! ::sighs::

I might not love the idea of Valentine’s but I won’t be a Sour Sally by writing a negative post about how I think it is a silly holiday that is a great economical boost for the flower, greeting card and chocolate industries. No, I just won’t do that and I won’t give you five tips for this or that to make your Valentine’s more romantic, sensual or exotic. Nope, won’t do that either. Instead I’ll give you one quick tip that might help you insure that the man or woman that will be your Valentine this year will be your Valentine again next year. Yes, this post is for those of you that have been in a relationship and want to keep it that way.

Jan

27

Putting Your Sexy Forward by Tygerlily

naked candor / sex love joy archives

If you are single, and you are 27 years of age or older, you must, I repeat, YOU MUST put your sexy forward at all times when you are interested in somebody. Gone are the days when you could afford to be ONLY girl-next-door-cutesy where you could just bat your eyes, and the boy would get the hint. He’s not gonna send you a note asking “Do you like me? Check _______yes ________no _______maybe.”

Jan

24

he likes new pussy. she likes new dick. so what?

sex & sexuality / sex love joy archives

Until the end of time arrives some men will continue to chase new pussy until they don’t want to get into new pussy anymore. Their egos become temporarily bloated because a new she gave into him. Their penises thank them each and every time they deliver new satin walls to play in. Plainly said those men enjoy the chase and triumph in the conquest. We know this because most men are open about what fuels their promiscuity yet the reasons given for why women are promiscuous are hidden and/or clouded in misjudgment.

Dec

15

don’t choose him but DO mount him!

love & relationships / sex & sexuality / sex love joy archives

These days I hear a lot of talk about how women should be the ones making the first move with men…

If a woman is interested in a man she shouldn’t be afraid to approach him.

Women who go for what they want GET what they want!

A man sometimes won’t make the first move because he doesn’t know if she’d be interested in him or not but he won’t have a problem with the woman pursuing him.

Oct

13

dear men, shave your pubes, stay in shape and learn to cook!

love & relationships / sex love joy archives

Dear Men,

I’m writing to you from the heart and on behalf of the many women who think like me. Many of y’all need to stop the slacking you’ve been doing with your grooming, exercising and cooking. If you aren’t willing to match the amount of effort we women put into looking good and nurturing y’all with good food then frankly you don’t deserve that kind of woman in your life!

Sep

29

turn a hoe into a housewife. today!

love & relationships / sex love joy archives

“You can’t turn a hoe into a housewife!”

That’s what they say yet every day a hoe some place is getting wifed, taking your place on his arm while you stay mad, talking mess. Let’s explore why you got passed up for that hoe in the first place…

Jul

28

sis, think about what love truly means…

love & relationships / sex love joy archives

You, are one of the lucky ones who was fortunate enough to have attained a good education, you don’t have a job instead you have a career, you have all the things you need, you even have many of the the things you want and everything else is not far from your grasp, except for that man on your list. Yes, you’re one of those ladies that comes equipped with a “wish list” and to it you stick when it comes to finding your man, without budging about the things you want because anything else would be settling. Well, go on girl! Get that perfect man. Wait!

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