Sometimes I feel bad for men, well, for the ones that aren’t meeting the high standards many women have for sex. I feel bad for those men that have below average to average size penises. I feel bad for those men that have love wands that lack girth. I feel bad for the men that have boners that don’t feel all that hard. I feel bad for those men that can’t help busting quickly. I feel bad for those men that need longer to recover from their last orgasm so that they can have sex again. I feel bad for men because there are a lot of men out there that desperately want to please their women but due to one or more of the factors above seem to always fall short. I feel bad for men because it seems like there are so many more traits that women judge them for sexually than what we are judged for. Plus, the three main factors that men use to rate women sexually are all things we can easily work on to perfect or fix while the things women judge men on for the most part are difficult to change.Read More»
Well, I hope that Part One of this Threesomes Guide for Couples helped y’all some. Here we go with part two dedicated to choices you’ll have to make as a couple before actually having a threesome. Ready?
There are a lot of decisions you’ll have to make as a couple in order to take the threesome from fantasy you talk about to spice up your sex life to reality. A threesome sounds like such a yummy fantasy that everyone should get to experience at least once but having been part of several myself I can say that they often fall very short of that fantasy image we each have in our heads…especially when you are functioning as a couple and not just an individual during a threesome! My advice and tips won’t guarantee that things will go well for you but they should at the very least help you make less mistakes.Read More»
So. You are one half of a happy stable sexually active couple that is open-minded about the possibility of inviting a third person into your bed? No? Then this guide isn’t for you. If you are a man or woman that is trying to figure out the right argument to present your significant other about allowing a third person into your bedroom this guide isn’t for you either. This post is strictly for those men and women that have already had a conversation about fulfilling their threesome fantasy with their partner.Read More»
I answer reader emails regularly but sometimes I feel that some of the questions and answers should be shared.
I’m new to your blog, and quite honestly, I’ve become obsessed. You touch on everything that has been on my mind lately, but I do have one request that I’m sure a lot of your readers would also like to know. That would be on the topic of oral sex performed on a woman. I hope that you address the issues of how a woman should look “down there” as well as how to be confident enough to look the man (or woman) in the eyes. Also, what if you’re shy about the way you look down there? Any confidence tips?
Rough Sex must be in style because last week I tweeted that I was thinking of writing about the art of choking and to my surprise a number of women tweeted me back saying, “write it!” with excitement. Now listen, this is an intermediate class so “spanking” won’t be discussed and spitting is out the window thus the title “the art of choking“.
With anything that is “out of the ordinary” sex play, one’s mission is to bring their lover to the brink of their comfort level that they never knew existed, never surpassing it to where they are visually uncomfortable but not in an underwhelming fashion where they’re looking at you like you’re the amateur.Read More»
By the time men reach a certain age most of the ones who have yearned to be the center of a female-male-female threesome have but there are those who still feverishly yearn to have that experience. When it comes to threesomes there is no one more down and enthusiastic than the single male that has never had one. This guy’s mind constantly replays a soft pornographic scene where two women are lost in a field with nothing else to do but fondle titties, tongue kiss and playfully let their mouths roam south on one another until he and his valiant penis come to save them. Oh, how in the world would these damsels have gotten any real fucking done if he hadn’t walked in?Read More»
Most men love and enjoy receiving oral sex more than anything else in the world. Getting head is right up there with their love of food and sports! Giving head to men that I am in a relationship with is something I have always enjoyed but wasn’t always good at. My education in toe curling fellatio began with Destiny but it was a few long term relationships and my marriage of 10+ years that made me comfortable and confident about giving head. Since I’ve been put on jaw rest by my doctor I thought why not share with you ladies some tricks to help you become more confident when giving head to your partner. I’ll be breaking this down in two detailed posts. This is Part One which covers top three scenarios and a few techniques. Part Two will be a surprise until tomorrow morning. Disclaimer: If you try these techniques you might find yourself on jaw rest too.Read More»
***This is erotic story is based on one of my real life
It was a rather cold Spring, not too many of us had cars which added up to not many of us dorm-dwellers being able to go very far and opting for staying indoors. We frequented the base shops to spend what little money we got on some new fits or kicks that we’d wear proudly as if everyone else didn’t go and cop it too. We enjoyed the fuckery of the very rare dorm party, that wasn’t much of a “party” since we weren’t allowed alcohol, music had to be kept to a minimum volume and our rooms were too small to hold but a select few. The happening spot always was the dorm day room, there you could see and be seen, there you could enjoy your evening if you were part of the hierarchy. He was part of that elite. I was new which made me fresh meat.Read More»
Anytime we take up a new hobby there are potential pitfalls that come with learning…eating pussy is no exception to this rule! If you are new to giving women oral pleasure there are many guides on how to quickly become an expert. Just walk through the sex aisle of any bookstore and you’ll see guide after guide about how to give a lady the big O using your mouth.Read More»